Christian Date
Conversation Starters by JamSocial
Updated February 16, 2026
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What was the most awkward thing that happened to you or someone you know on a date?
What is the funniest misunderstanding that has ever happened to you?
What never fails to make you laugh?
What is the most random dream you've had recently?
You’re at a karaoke bar and the DJ says you have to sing one song to save the entire audience's lives. What are singing?
If you won $10 million tomorrow but the catch is you have to spend it all in 24 hours without buying any property or stocks, what are we doing?
What is the most "uncool" thing you are a massive fan of?
If your life was a movie, what would the main plot be about?
What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever received that you actually ignored?
What is the most "out of character" thing you’ve ever done that you actually ended up loving?
If you had an extra hour of free time every single day that couldn't be spent on work or sleep, what would you do with it?
What’s the weirdest "rabbit hole" you’ve fallen down recently on the internet?
If money wasn't an object, what would your ideal day look like
What is one change you hope to see in the world during your lifetime?
Who is a stranger who made a big impact on your life?/Who is a stranger you will never forget?
What is the most ridiculous but wholesome thing you believed about the Bible as a kid?
If you could have dinner with any Christian figure from history (not Jesus), who would it be and what would you ask them?
What’s a "small win" in your daily life that makes you feel like you’ve totally conquered the world?
What's a Bible story or verse that's been important to you lately?
If you had to describe your childhood in one word, what would it be?
If you could send a 30-second voice note to your younger self, what age would you pick and what would you say?
What is a compliment you receive often that feels hollow, and what is one you rarely get but wish you did?
What is an area of your life right now where you are specifically asking God for wisdom or guidance?
How has your image of who God is changed over the past few years, and what prompted that change?
How do you want your faith to look different a year from now compared to how it looks today?
What do you want your legacy to be, even if it’s only remembered by a few people?
When you’re at your lowest, what is the kindest thing someone can do for you?
What was the hardest lesson you learned last year?
When have you felt closest to God, and when have you felt most distant?
What’s a "truth" you used to believe firmly, but have since changed your mind about?
What does "emotional safety" look like to you in a relationship?
Is there a specific person in your life who shaped the way you love today? For better or worse?
What is the one thing you’re most proud of that isn't on your resume?
What's something about the way you were raised that you'd want to carry into your own relationship?
How do you tend to handle conflict when it arises with someone you care about?
What's a wound or struggle from your past that God has helped you heal from?
What does emotional intimacy look like to you in a relationship?
How do you know when you truly trust someone?
What's something you're learning about yourself in this season of life?
What's a fear you have about marriage or commitment?
What does it look like for you to love someone well?
Who taught you how to love, and what did they teach you?
What's a non-negotiable for you in a future spouse?
How do you want to be challenged or encouraged to grow in a relationship?
What's something you're hoping to be true about your future relationship?
How do you currently sense God leading or guiding your life?
What's a question about love or relationships you're still trying to figure out?
What does it look like to put someone else's needs before your own in a healthy way?
What's something you admire about couples who have been married for a long time?
How do you want to be loved that maybe isn't the obvious or typical answer?
What's something you're afraid to ask for in a relationship but secretly hope for?
If you knew this was the last first date you'd ever go on, what would you want me to know about you?
How did you first come to faith, or what was your spiritual background growing up?
What's something you're currently learning about God or yourself?
What does a meaningful prayer life look like for you?
Who has influenced your faith the most?