Faith & Doubt
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Updated February 17, 2026
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What’s a Christian 'cliché' that you’ve always found a bit annoying?
What is your 'spiritual love language' (e.g., nature, liturgy, service, music)?
What’s your favorite Bible verse that people often take out of context?
If you could have coffee with any minor character from the Bible, who would it be?
What’s the most 'church-y' thing about your personality?
What is one worship song you secretly can't stand?
What’s your favorite 'Christian' book that isn't the Bible?
What’s a funny memory you have from a youth group or church camp?
What is one spiritual discipline that feels like a joy, not a chore?
If you were a missionary in a place that had never heard of faith, how would you describe God in one sentence?
If you could ask God one 'Why?' question and get an immediate answer, what would it be?
What’s a part of your faith that feels 'easy' right now, and what part feels like a desert?
How do you handle it when your prayers don't seem to be answered the way you hoped?
What’s a sermon or teaching that fundamentally changed the way you live?
How do you balance 'being in the world' but not 'of the world' in your specific career?
What is a part of church culture that you think we need to leave behind?
Who in your life reflects the character of Jesus most clearly to you?
What is a Bible story that used to confuse you but now brings you comfort?
How has your view of 'the church' changed as you've gotten older?
What does 'Sabbath' actually look like for you in a busy week?
What is a 'heretical' or outside-the-box thought you’ve had that actually brought you closer to God?
When has 'deconstructing' a belief actually led to a better 'reconstruction' for you?
How do you want to represent Christ to people who have been deeply hurt by the church?
Where is God in your deepest pain? How have you experienced Him there?
What is a doubt you carry that you’re afraid might make you 'less' of a believer?
How do you tell the difference between God’s voice and your own inner critic?
What does 'dying to yourself' look like in your life right now?
If you lost your faith tomorrow, what is the one thing you would miss the most?
What is a truth about God that you are currently struggling to believe with your heart, even if you know it with your head?
What is the most significant way your faith has cost you something, and was it worth it?