First Date
Conversation Starters by JamSocial
Updated February 17, 2026
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What's the most spontaneous thing you've done in the past year?
What's a food that immediately reminds you of home or growing up?
If you could have any animal as a pet, real or fictional, what would you choose?
What's a skill you have that would surprise people?
What's your favorite way to spend a day off?
What's a TV show or movie that made you laugh out loud?
If you could instantly learn a new language, which one would it be?
What's the best meal you've ever had?
What's a small thing that brightens your day every time?
What's something you've been wanting to try but haven't yet?
Who in your life has taught you the most about friendship?
What's a place you've visited that stayed with you?
What's something you're really good at that has nothing to do with your job?
How do you like to celebrate a win, big or small?
What's a book, movie, or song that has shaped how you see the world?
What does your ideal Saturday morning look like?
What's a tradition from your family that you'd want to continue?
What's something you were afraid of as a kid that seems silly now?
What's the best compliment you've ever received?
What's something you hope for in the next few years of your life?
What's a challenge you've faced that made you stronger?
How do you recharge when you're feeling drained?
What's something you wish more people understood about you?
What's a value or principle that guides your decisions?
When have you felt most proud of yourself?
What's a fear you'd like to overcome someday?
What's something you're looking forward to in the next season of life?
Who makes you feel most understood?
If you knew this was the last first date you'd ever go on, what would you want me to know about you?
How do you like to celebrate a win, big or small?
If you had to describe your childhood in one word, what would it be?
What's something you've changed your mind about as you've gotten older?
What does a beautiful day look like to you?
What's a lesson you had to learn the hard way?
What's something you're grateful for that happened this week?
If you could give your younger self one piece of advice, what would it be?
What's something about you that you hope someone takes the time to discover?